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This past week, I have been bumping some Miley Cyrus, and she is just so good, bro. Honestly, it’s hard to even explain it. I think maturing is realizing that her latest album is by far her greatest work. I like her other stuff too, but you can see her growth and her new rock style so clearly and well in her new stuff. She is just starting to find herself and her self-worth, and with doing so, her sound got better, her lyrics hit harder, and she just glows differently now.

This will break into my first of many dating posts, and it is for my ladies who are not dating or not happy in their dating situations. Just a little background about me which will probably humor you a bit, especially being that my first dating post is about not dating. I have never been in a real relationship before. Praise God for that, lol! Of course, there were times I wanted to be in one and thought I was more than ready, but man, did God say no. God basically yelled in my face, NO! But we have got time later on to get into that…

I was mad for a while, I was, I thought I had a problem or something. I’ve gone through quite a few talking stages, most just lasted a couple of weeks, some a few months, and my dumbass even allowed a couple to last a few years. If there is something to know about present-day dating, it is that there are 500 stages and steps before making it official, and I just never got through all those stages. If I made it through some, there were definitely many breaks taken in between. I did blame myself sometimes because I never really prioritized being in a relationship, but the guys were for sure the problem. Hehe, just kidding… Maybe? But anyways, I am a catch and a half, so you do the math.

So anyways, real relationships and being in love, I have no experience in. But I do know everything in the world about what not to do (dude, I am on fire today 😂). However, I do consider myself to be pretty darn good at giving dating advice, and I get asked quite a lot for it. So I am about to give you all my infinity stones for real, and I hope you cherish them and utilize them!

So my very first dating advice I give you is… Don’t. Don’t do it, ladies, unless you are already in a happy, healthy, stable relationship with somebody who complements you, invests in you, and is willing to grow with you. Or if you have someone like that in the works. But if you don’t, do not do it. Do not look for it, don’t chase it, and definitely DO NOT FORCE IT. <– That’s a big one, FYI. You could pray about it. That you could 100% do. God wants you to be happy; He cares about you for real. You know who doesn’t though? That guy you’re begging to give you the absolute bare minimum. You are the prize, you are the trophy (always remember that), and so you have to stand alone for a while, let people see from a distance how priceless and valuable you are. Eventually, the one who is worthy enough will earn you, get to hold you, and genuinely care about you. BUT FOR RIGHT NOW, just be okay with you being about you, and know that in the right time, everything you prayed for will surpass what you could have ever dreamed of. In the meantime, go buy yourself flowers, write your name in the sand, talk to yourself for hours, take yourself dancing, hold your own hand, and love yourself better than anybody else can. God bless you all, and have a fun and fabulous weekend.